A Question

[adivie]

I post quite a bit on Twitter, Facebook, and other forums. I used to post on OnlyFans until my permanent banishment. I usually post clips, teasers, and photos from my collection or from others whom I have received permission. Needless to say, I have received lots of requests for more photos or more intense photos. I have also received the requests for free copies of videos. A few women (I assume) have chatted me up on Facebook talking about their bondage fantasies.

Well, I made the mistake of telling one guy on Facebook the city I lived near and he told a Facebook friend of his, a woman. She happens to live in the city. Anyhow, she really wants to be tied up and loves the photos I have posted, mostly from Beauties-In-Bondage. She wants to be bound and gagged sitting in a chair while wearing nothing but her bra and panties. She wants to be able to mmmph in her gag and be able to struggle against her bonds but not get free. She wants to be bound in an abandoned building in a kidnap/ransom scenario. She is looking to do this all starting two weeks from now. She wants me to meet with her to work out the details.

Am I on my way to the slammer? What would you do in this situation? She is not one of Dave's models so diving in head-first was not an option for me.

[davidnorth]

First of all, this is the Internet. You know absolutely nothing about these people. You don't even know if you're really talking to a woman. My advice is, don't do it. At the very least, it could backfire on you badly. I only work with girls who are either established models that I can vet, or are newbies known to models I work with who can vouch for them.

I get requests from would-be women on a regular basis asking me to hire them. They have no portfolio and don't know anyone in the industry, and some won't even provide a photo. Some do, but for all I know they have just lifted it off the net. They could be men just trying to find out where I am, or to get information about models. The way they write can betray that the writer is male too - there are just some things a woman would never say.

My general rule is to politely refuse such offers, but if they persist and will obviously become I nuisance, I block them. Is just isn't worth it.

[adivie]

Dave, this is why I posted this to you and others in the business I trust. I value your opinion and expertise. The deal is off the table and will NOT proceed. Thank you for you help and assistance in this matter. The question is answered.

[adivie]

Would you believe that, after I had unfriended and blocked this person, another "friend" on Facebook started asking me the same questions?!? What is it about my profile that states I will kidnap you, bind & gag you, and vibrator torture you to your heart's content?

[davidnorth]

Would you believe that, after I had unfriended and blocked this person, another "friend" on Facebook started asking me the same questions?!? What is it about my profile that states I will kidnap you, bind & gag you, and vibrator torture you to your heart's content?

Probably the same person. They're messing with you.